When He first came to us, the house was a mess and dinner wasn’t ready. We didn’t have much time to roll out the welcome mat, and only Anna and I were here to greet him. But of all the guests I’ve had in my house, this little one has taught me the most about offering our home to others.
He’s taught me that the mess doesn’t matter. He could care less if the toys are put away and the fact that I haven’t deep cleaned the fridge in months doesn’t bother him in the least. He is at home here because we want him here, not because the house is tidy and well kept. Laughing and playing and loving happen despite the disorder around us. And when the focus is on the people in the house, rather than the looks of the house, magical things happen.
He’s taught me that fancy isn’t needed. Seasonal decor and perfectly kept furnishings are not necessary for him to be blessed by his time here. In fact, his crib is borrowed and the toys he enjoys have been well loved on before. The table where he dines has scratches and nicks, but the company he keeps while he eats loves the stew out of him. Plain things don’t hinder the show of affection. We offer what we have, mainly ourselves, and that is enough for him. He’s taught me that letting go of the ideal is important. Ideally, he would have his own room. Ideally we would have extra space to store the wall to wall baby gear. Ideallywe would have had everything in order before he came to us. But if we had allowed what was “ideal” to rule the day when we were deciding about inviting him in, we probably wouldn’t have taken him. But we would have missed out on the supreme blessing of loving and being loved by him.
He’s taught me that showing true hospitality is worth the effort.Having him here definitely requires more work. Everyone in our family has had to pitch in and give of themselves to make this thing happen. There is more to clean, more to cook, more work to do! But in that work a marvelous process is taking place; a little boy is finding his place in a family. And that family is discovering that life isn’t solely about taking care of their own.
He’s taught me that when God asks us to share, He gives us everything we need to do it. When we first learned that he would be joining us we had 36 hours to prepare, and exactly one thing ready for him; a crib. Within 6 hours, God delivered mounds of baby gear and clothes. And in the last 6 months, He’s kept up a steady stream of deliveries. Through faithful friends and perfect strangers, God has provided what is needed to care for this little one. He’s the best dressed and most fully equipped little darling in the area!
He’s taught me that when God asks us to share, He gives us everything we need to do it. When we first learned that he would be joining us we had 36 hours to prepare, and exactly one thing ready for him; a crib. Within 6 hours, God delivered mounds of baby gear and clothes. And in the last 6 months, He’s kept up a steady stream of deliveries. Through faithful friends and perfect strangers, God has provided what is needed to care for this little one. He’s the best dressed and most fully equipped little darling in the area!
One little fellow has taught my family loads about inviting others into our home. We’ve learned that it’s not so about how the house looks or what’s on the menu. Because of him, we now understand that offering ourselves and sharing what we have is the essence of true hospitality.
You are certainly expressing biblical hospitality. A friend recently described the difference between “entertaining” people in your home and true hospitality. She stated that when you “entertain” people in your home, the focus is on impressing them. True hospitality focuses on making people feel at home. That is exactly what you have done for this precious little one (and all those who have entered your home). You are a blessing!
Good word, Debbie. Far to many times I’ve practiced “entertaining” rather than hospitality. Working to let the Lord change this in me!
My husband and I do foster care too! Love finding others who are doing this incredible work! Blessings! Found you through the Allume twitter party tonight 🙂
Just hopped over to The Ruth Experience. Love it! I hope to meet you at Allume. Confession: I was totally overwhelmed at the Twitter party last night. Have you been to Allume before?
Thanks Beth! I love your blog too! I have never been to Allume and was totally overwhelmed last night too! But I won something, so I must have done something right ;). I would love to meet at Allume, if you want, find me on Facebook and we could chat!